We here at R&R are pleased to welcome Rockermom extraordinairre Debbi Douglas to our online mag! As one of the lead singers for the uber-popular funk band,LIPSHOK, Debbi has shown moms all over how to rock it for years. Not only a rock diva, Debbi also spends her days as a pro tennis instructor at one of the largest fitness centers in north America. As a wife, mom, rocker, tennis pro, etc., Debbi was one tough cookie to catch up to. Fortunately for R&R, we talked Debbi into giving us a quick interview.
What is your definition of a “Rockermom”? What would those closest to you say if I asked them what makes you a Rockermom? When you picture yourself both before motherhood and now, what would you say is the biggest difference? What accomplishments are you most proud of? In one sentence, describe your children! What or who is your biggest motivation? Here are some fun questions to answer in 3 words (more or less, we won’t mark it wrong!): What are your greatest strengths? talent, empathy, athleticism
Weaknesses? too nice, low self-esteem, too sensitive
Definitions of success? Family security, appearance, admiration
Favorite ways to handle stress? village hobby, DVD's, exercise
Three values you hope to pass on to your children? respect, caring, awareness
Favorite indulgences? naps, shopping, singing
Annoyances? whining, weakness, laziness
Favorite places? anywhere with my family, on stage, Tahoe
If you had the power to change one thing in the world, what would it be? Where do you hope to see yourself five years from now? Do you have some quick advice for other musician moms? Pro-active time scheduling
A favorite quote that sums it all up for you:
But wait, there's more!.. Each month, Debbi will be sharing her musical knowledge with all of you in the new advice column, LIPTALK by LIPSHOK. For more about Debbi and LIPSHOK, check out this recent article from the Contra Costa Times by clicking here:
Lipshok in Jail
and be sure to read on for the brand new LIPTALK by LIPSHOK!
A mom who also follows her own heart and sets that example for her children.
Because I am into my band, performing, and my music and I "rock".
My music careeer is now in perspective.
My son, my music, my tennis.
The joy of my life.
Family and spirit.
My physique
In a bigger house with more money
Do what you love and love what you do.
Q: I am 16 and a singer and I want to be in a band. How should I get started?
A: Start at school. If you are in music classes (and you should be) find some friends with similar ambitions and start a group. You need people that play instruments (i.e. guitar, drums, bass, piano, etc.), and they need to have their own equipment, and you might need PA equipment as well .
Most important is you get some experience before taking it further, like onto Craig's list or something.
And as a singer, your own microphone and PA will really make you more attractive for bands looking for singers and will take you a lot further.
Q: I am a singer and I am having trouble hearing myself on stage when I perform with my metal band. What can I do?
A: Don't procrastinate on fixing this or you can hurt your voice. Metal bands are inherently loud (which is ok for the context) and you need better monitors because it's unlikely the band will turn down (not that they should). You can get bigger floor monitors, side fills, or even better, try the in-ear monitor systems (although they can be pricey and uncomfortable). This is a typical problem with many bands but it's also solvable.
Sometimes the clubs you play don't have adequate monitors for singers and you aren't supplying the PA (where you could have some control) and then the problem might be worsened. Maybe you can talk to the band in that situation and you can come up with an overall volume solution.
Email your questions or comments to: liptalk4deb@yahoo.com, and visit LIPSHOK's website at: www.Lipshok2000.com
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